It was anyway a really hectic day so couldnt really write.. missed my walk too as returned late from work.. everyday there is a new realization for each one of us.. in fact not one but many such realizations that are fleetingly seen and disappear into thought-ether unpursued.. meditation might be a realization of such thoughts.. understood.. explored and then let go.. today as a friend was crying over the phone because she had lost her wallet and her mom was telling her off, i again realised how wrong it is for us to check someone immediately, for in that moment all they need is our support. Our anxiety makes us upset with the very person we are so concerned about maybe for putting us or themselves in such a situation. The very children we want to be independent and confident are spoon fed or told off for dealing with situations in a certain way. Should it not be ok for them to learn from their mistakes, because a mistake is never done on purpose, and then help them find a better way, through caution or guidance, or an enhanced awareness of the pitfalls therein.
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