so many of us get stuck in terrible situations.. and become a 'victim' of circumstances.. whether it is at home.. or at work.. with friends.. relatives.. family.. and we blame everything that happens to us.. on that person.. his/her terrible nature.. and slowly we start 'reacting' in similar ways.. a thing that we hated.. becomes a way of life for us.. under the guise of 'blame' 'victim' 'reaction'..
why is it more the norm than exception.. why is the 'worse' nature, though hated profoundly.. emulated the most.. why does it always supercede.. where does 'individuality' disappear, in such moments.. is it a pointer to the 'baseness' in each one of us..
right after marriage, a lady was told about all the 'terrible' members of the family.. and how badly the daughters-in-law of that house were treated.. she heard everything out without comment.. and with each subsequent event, started pointing out the 'goodness' happening in that house.. and as the 'focus' shifted.. it was like two sides of the same coin.. so it IS possible.. and it CAN happen.. if only we believe in ourselves more.. and let the 'light' in our heart reflect in another.. instead of letting the 'darkness' in another reflect in ours..
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