What you wish for

you cannot harm another with your thoughts, you only harm you. It is so sad that all of us find it simpler to exclaim 'i love this or that' for inanimate objects or pets and various animals but for another human-being somehow related to you it feels awkward to say.

'be careful what you wish for, it just might come true'

when you know your 'destination' you will somehow always find the way, through a few wrong turns maybe, or asking for directions but you will always reach where you need to go, so 'talk'' yourself through to clarity  as to what exactly  you want or where you want to reach.

'gratitude' again relates to a 'happy' feeling.  it is only when we feel good about something, that we feel the need to express our gratitude. and showing it throughout the day translates into contentment and joy within an 'uplifting' that creates 'happy' ripples all around us and that definitely speaks of a 'great' day'

'ripple effect' - you frown and shout or snap at people around you and it reflects in their eyes and hearts and reactions to others and before you know it leaves a lot of people 'unhappy' all around. but if you smile and laugh and are pleasant you reflect a 'happy' feeling inside the people around you and their resultant reactions change accordingly..

visualisation - clarity and conviction

giving 'charity begins at home'

'you need to go for the inner joy, the inner peace, the inner vision first, and then all of the other things appear' it is our own 'conditioning' 'limiting' that works against us. all we need to do is REALLY BELIEVE in ourselves.

we have put boundaries around ourselves, our beliefs , really believing we are incapable of doing a lot of things, if we can shed those 'lines' bit by bit the possibilities become limitless and opportunities equal to any and all. 

'once you have made up your mind you can put things back together again'

choice  - we all have one. given any  situation it's our choices that determine the consequences of our actions, that determine each individuality and hence determine the future outcome of our lives..

we can choose to be happy or sad, pessimistic optimistic - whatever .. every feeling is a package of our  belief-system.. our minds are extremely powerful hence we are able to 'move mountains' so to speak, under hypnosis. then why can't we do it to ourselves. teach ourselves by controlling our thoughts and thought processes CONSCIOUSLY till it reaches an unconscious or natural level and becomes a way  of life.

(ironically) you only need identification to differentiate between twins

what is taliban saying.. is it defeating it's own message?

ambition - what it does and what it costs.. we need it so desperately sacrifice so much of value in ourselves and in our lives that when we fail there is no one left inside.. 

we all need that 'respite' that 'escape bubble' - the 'feel-good' factor. some do it with a movie, friends, music, a 'book' - for a mild mood-swing. while some extremes need drugs,  medicines, alcohol etc.. but we all need this from time to time in order to 'return' to face an uncomfortable moment or situation.. so everything eventually returns to our mind and it's resilience and how we DO find rough and simple methods to somehow regulate our thoughts enough to face the 'realities' of our life.

our 'thoughts' and 'feelings' do create a ripple-effect, to the extent that when we feel good and right about our life our minds are clear and happy enough to make the right choices and move in the right directions or 'look towards the sun' - unflinchingly. but when we don't feel good or are unhappy our reactions and choices somehow move in sync and this results in 'our thougts determining or creating our future as we know it'

though our circumstances are pre-determined our choices are always in our hands, if only we can rise above tthe 'conditioning' of 'limiting' ourselves through pre-conceived  notions and allow ourselves the freedom to give individualistic and true meaning to the selfish 'I' .

none of us want to be unhappy, depressed sad or poor.. but when  we get into those situations, we need to be aware of it, and steer ourselves away from these situations or feelings. wherever you are in life, inside or out.. reflects where you have been 'mentally' in the recent past.

what you focus on, is what you bring into your life, be it good or bad