catharsis

every experience is unique to that moment.. determining the next step of our life.. though the way might be the same.. our perceptions define the range we see..

This is an excerpt on 'forgiveness', from a book called 'Disappearance of the Universe' based on 'A Course in Miracles'.. "The guilt I thought was in you isn't in you; it's really in me, because there's really only one of us, and you are just a figure I made up for my dream. I can forgive myself by forgiving you, and only by forgiving you, because you're symbolic of what's in my unconscious mind. If you're guilty then I'm guilty, but if you're innocent then I'm innocent'..

dealing with pain and remorse is never easy nor is there any singular antidote that helps.. our minds torment us in unique and personal ways that none can comprehend.. regret and remorse can leave twp paths in front of us.. one in which we hold on to them weighing us heavily down.. burning our very soul for lifetimes.. but neither helping us nor the incident that caused them.. till we learn to 'let go'.. and the second path realizes the impossibility of going back in time to undo all that's already happened.. understanding the necessary 'lesson' needed to be learnt.. as the only good that can result from moments already past.. in that lesson is our forgiveness.. for every moment is meant to teach.. and only our 'vanity' thinks we are unique to our mistakes.. for everyone treads the same path..